Signs of a toxic partner

Human beings have a fundamental need for relationships. Sharing our lives with others can positively impact our energy levels, reduce stress, and contribute to our overall happiness. When we fall in love, we often experience a period in which we view our partner through rose-colored glasses. During this time, our partner seems perfect and we see no flaws in them. As we spend more time with them, we become more connected and gradually get used to them being around us.

However, sometimes relationships can harm our lives, causing us to become unhappy. In a relationship, eventually the “rose-colored glasses” period ends and we start fighting, getting annoyed and noticing they are not so perfect. That is a natural process as none of us humans is or ever will be perfect. But, there is a certain degree where the fights and imperfections can be too extreme, and become toxic.

Here are some signs with specific examples of behavior that fall into that category:

• Excessive jealousy f.e. Getting into fights over looking at the opposite gender on the street, talking to the opposite gender alone, not allowing you to go to work or school, constant phone calls and texts.

• Controlling behavior f.e. Needing to know all your friends, family members, and activities.

• Gaslighting f.e. Claiming that your friends and family members don't understand or support you.

• Aggression f.e. Engaging in physical aggression but then apologizing and claiming they love you so much that they can't control it.

• Financial manipulation f.e. “If you have money, it's our money.”

If you are dealing with any of these behaviors I urge you to reach out for support. I have a free 1h consultation where we can dive into your concerns.

With love,

Stefani